If I find this definition right, I think every single of us women have gone through an abuse in one way or the other according to this quote. because let’s just be honest to our core that being in such situations hurts…

Abuse is when you are hurt mentally, physically and emotionally. When you are being pushed to your limits to the extent where you constantly start to feel that you are worthless.

This is abuse… Abuse of power at the abuser’s end and Emotional Abuse at the victim’s end.

Whenever someone thinks that he or she can push you to their limits because he/she has the dominion that is where the abuse proliferates.

Abuse is when a boss thinks because he runs things around, he can directly abuse his employees by constantly questioning their capability.

Abuse starts when a partner in a relationship cheats thinking that his/her better half is sleeping, working or busy with the child.

This is abuse.. yes.

This is an abuse of that freedom and space he has/her partner. Though, he was never entitled to the cheat his/her marriage contract due to any reason whatsoever. It was never mentioned that he/she can cheat just because ah… ummm. It got little boring.

Abuse may it be what sort, crushes you to the core. It questions your existence and survival. It totally makes you think as you are someone who can be shoved off. It hits you hard on your hopes and dreams & makes you feel worthless.

Abuse starts when people grasp your weakness & taunt you just because they know you are not able to speak up because of your lack of support from your partner or your circumstances.

Abuse is when somebody thinks that you can be placed anywhere anytime like a useless package just because there isn’t any space for your existence in their hearts.

Abuse may it be what sort, crushes you to the core. It questions your existence and survival. It totally makes you think as you are someone who can be shoved off. It hits you hard on your hopes and dreams & makes you feel worthless.

Abuse is when someone thinks he/she can overpower you with their negative energy and their self-centeredness.

So next time when you experience anything which demoralizes you, demean you or just make you question your existence. Do not consider that it’s just “spur of the moment” and everything will be “OK” with time. It is abuse because it will stay there in your memory for a long long time or may even never erase.

We women, tend to compensate such abuses with our better days or the days when we were treated kindly by the abuser. Well, It is totally not justified to engulf these abuses. If it has damaged you, if it has lowered your self-esteem and questioned yourself for anything, It should not be taken normal & should be communicated right across the board to the abuser that they need to stop abusing their power or authority towards you.

Their negative energy and insecurities are not your problem and just like their personalities were valued by you, you deserve the same. Your capability and your point of view should be taken into consideration the same way their’s is recognized. Your voice cannot be suppressed with power, authority or their social status.

The way to live is to let live. Oppression and abuse is never the answer.